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10 Tricks to Deal with High Stress Days

August 27, 2023 by Martin Neumann - [rt_reading_time label="Reading Time:" postfix="minutes" postfix_singular="minute"]

10 Tricks to Deal with High Stress Days

We all have days that are considerably more challenging and stressful than others. Unfortunately, stress is hard on both the mind and body.

10 Tricks to Deal with High Stress Days

If stress passes pretty quickly, we normally recuperate fine. When the high stress days are lining up, then they really start to take its toll. And what’s worse, you could even become so used to being in this “high state of alert” that you start to feel like it’s normal! Don’t let this happen to you.

Maybe you are at this point that you know you need to take some action to control your stress. Although you certainly need some tools to figure out the root cause of your stress and deal with it, sometimes it is good to have some techniques that can help you relax and strengthen your self-soothing abilities.

When you’re struggling to stay calm, relaxed, and focused, try some of these strategies:

  1. Breathe deeply. Breathe in for 5 seconds and hold it for 5 seconds. While inhaling your belly should go out, which is called abdominal breathing and involves your maximum lung capacity. Now exhale for 5 seconds. Do this 10 times and focus only on your breathing, forgetting your problems around you. Oxygenating your brain can do wonders to get your emotions under control. Just don´t try so hard that you will tense up.
  2. Take a walk. Practice your deep breathing during your walk, focusing on your breathing, walking, and surroundings. Look what you can observe in nature around you so that you can take off your thoughts from your problems more easily.
  3. Get some good exercise. Any time of day is a good time to exercise. Comfortably tired is what you’re looking for. Work out your frustrations by going for a run or swim. Hit the weights and show them who is boss. Any exercise will do as long as there is some intensity involved. Shuffleboard isn’t going to cut it.
  4. Sit outside. A little time at the beach or park can work wonders. Find a relaxing spot with pleasant scenery. Pay attention to what’s going on around you, enjoy some warm rays of the sun and keep your mind off your challenges. Even 10 to 15 minutes can greatly reduce your stress.
  5. Take a day off. Everyone needs a break once in a while. Actually, in order to be productive, you need a weekly day of rest. However, on your day off, it’s important to avoid just sitting around and brooding about all of your current difficulties. Take your mind off of your world to something that lifts you up. Do some activities that you enjoy. Visit a friend. Volunteer at a homeless shelter. Helping others in their problems could make you realize that your problems are not that big after all.
  6. Read. Find something engrossing to read. The ideal book would be able to take your mind off of your world for a few hours. Ask your friends for some recommendations, or if you’re like most people, you probably have a couple of books on the shelf that you’ve never gotten around to. Now is the perfect time to read it.
  7. Listen to music. In order to go to sleep at night, you probably want some really relaxing music. At other moments of the day, it can be a bit more involving. Classical music is excellent in order to involve your mind, but other styles can do if you prefer. Avoid though aggressive beats, since they are able to increase your stress levels.
  8. Disconnect. No phone and no computer. Turn off everything that connects you to the outside world. Then you can really relax. Enjoy your day without distractions and find some other activities that are fulfilling to you.
  9. Take a nap. There’s no better way to start over than to take a nap. When you wake up, it feels like another chance to start your day over. What happened before your nap is in the past! Now you are energized to deal with your problems and move on.
  10. Get out with people that are fun. Get your buddies together and go for a walk. Or have dinner with a friend that has a happy upbeat. It’s easy to get caught up in our own little world. Being with others can jolt you out of that perspective, and having a healthy social network is key to good stress control.
A couple relaxing at sunset

Don’t let high stress get you down. The key is to actively do something about it. Some people develop a habit of being paralyzed when things start going sideways, but this does nothing to make you feel better or solve your stressful issues.

Actively relax so you’ll be better able to tackle your challenges. Use these tips to minimize the pressure and anxiety you’re feeling and take control of yourself and the situation. Dealing with your challenges effectively is crucial to living the peaceful and fulfilling life you deserve.

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Filed Under: Mental Health, Stress Management

Healthy Weight Helps

August 20, 2023 by Martin Neumann - [rt_reading_time label="Reading Time:" postfix="minutes" postfix_singular="minute"]

Healthy Weight Helps

Cindy had many challenges in her life. She made a positive choice to quit smoking but then gained 80 pounds. “I felt miserable and had a terrible self-image. I was plagued by headaches and stomach pain. I decided that it was time to change my attitude, my thinking, and my choices to turn my life around. I went from wanting to lose weight to winning my battle of the bulge.”

Healthy Weight Helps

Here’s how:

  1. I saw my need and potential as they really were. Knowing I had a problem was one thing — discovering that God had a purpose for my life gave me hope and helped me address my depression as well as my lifestyle choices.  “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11 ESV)
  2. I chose to believe I could change. I stopped listening to the negative “failure-based” messages I had rehearsed for years. I stopped making excuses and feeling sorry for myself.
  3. I chose faith in God to activate my decision. My faith gave me the power to push through obstacles and learn new habits. “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you” (Psalm 32:8 ESV).
  4. I accepted the support I needed to persist in my decision. I joined a walking/jogging club with other positive-minded people. My husband, Brian, was a tremendous support, and he lost 45 pounds himself!  Daily exercise became a priority for me.
  5. I learned to daily accept responsibility. I daily rehearsed new positive choices instead of giving up on mistakes.  
  6. I chose to act on my decision every day. I made two key lifestyle decisions that were key to moving forward to reach my goals. I learned how to choose healthful, high-fiber fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and beans and stopped buying impulse “comfort” foods (See Five Shopping Secrets). I determined to exercise every day, and gradually increase the intensity and frequency, challenging myself to become stronger.
  7. I learned to see tomorrow’s reward in today’s discipline. Cindy lost 80 pounds and has kept it off for years now. Most importantly, her thinking and mindset were healed in the process, not just her body. Every good choice today yields a gift tomorrow. Now that’s something to look forward to!

Five Shopping Secrets for Successful Weight Loss

  1. Plan ahead.  Create a grocery list and stick to it. Go shopping right after a meal so you are satisfied and not hungry. Stay in the area of the store that has healthier choices.
  2. Go veggie! Focus on fresh fruits, salads with lots of leafy greens, crunchy raw veggies, and whole grains. Choose healthy fats like walnuts, avocados, and lemon and olive oil on salads.
  3. Beware of bottles, bags, and bars. Bottles: Soda pop and sweetened drinks are the number one source of added sugar in the American diet. Just one 12 oz. can of soda a day adds 75 cups of sugar to your diet in one year! Bags: A small bag of fried chips can be as much as 420 calories! A baked potato is only 110 calories. A savory ear of corn is just 60 calories!  What a difference in flavor as well as fill-up value! Bars: Candy bars, even so-called “health food bars” are often loaded with calories, low in fiber, and short on appetite satisfaction.
  4. Shift from calorie “dense” to calorie “sense.” When you take away the fiber and nutrition of whole plant foods, you get sugar, fat, and salt. You would have to eat 25 carrots to get the calories in just one 8 oz. chocolate bar! And how quickly does a bar like that disappear, only to leave you hungry and craving more?  When it comes to weight loss, the real question is, “Are you eating ENOUGH to lose weight?” “Are you eating enough fiber foods (at least 30-50 grams per day) that provide true satisfaction?”
  5. Watch for hidden calories. The closer you stick to the produce department, including wholesome beans, unrefined grains such as brown rice, oats, and whole wheat, and fresh vegetables, the less you have to be concerned about calories, fat, sugar, and salt!
A woman shopping at the fruit market

Each good choice makes way for another. Eating delicious, high-fiber foods eliminates the need for eating all day long.  Put a “fence” around mealtime and drink plenty of water between meals. This reduces cravings for snacks and sugary drinks, and improves digestion and energy.

More energy and fewer eating episodes mean more time, energy, and inclination for daily exercise!  And that means more muscle, better metabolism, and deeper, more refreshing sleep — all essential to balanced living, better mood, and successful weight management.

The Living Word

It takes time and perseverance to recover lost ground and form healthy habits. God will give you guidance, power, and the will to stick with it. Cindy won her battle of the bulge and learned to replace the negativity trap of failure-based thinking with positive, can-do thinking. She tapped into God’s power, promises, and plan, and so can you. “He satisfies your mouth with good things, so that your youth is renewed like the eagles” (Psalm 103:5) God knows your needs and understands the challenges you face. We all need His plan and power in life.

Call to Action

Would you like His renewing power in your life? Would you like to tell Him now, “I am ready — let’s do this!”

What is a powerful new habit that you would like to focus on or strengthen this week as your first step? God will give you the power and the will to make this positive choice so that you can reach and maintain your healthful weight — and enjoy better health, better habits, and a better life!

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Filed Under: Healthy Lifestyle, Temperance Tagged With: weight control

How to Deal with Personality Disorders in 6 Steps

August 13, 2023 by Dr. Cesar Vasconcellos de Souza - [rt_reading_time label="Reading Time:" postfix="minutes" postfix_singular="minute"]

Do you know people who have difficulties relating to each other in a healthy way? It is possible that this is a disorder, but it is possible to change, if the person desires. In order to change, he needs to stop denying that he has a personality problem. Stopping denial is the first big step towards change. To stop denying is to admit the existence of the problem, and this, in turn, is basic to find a solution.

How to Deal with Personality Disorders in 6 Steps

Many people present what we scientifically call a personality disorder, such as schizoaffective, schizotypal and others. They have an unhealthy ego above the limitations we all have in the way we are. For some authors, these people are individuals with an abnormal personality, without apparently showing brain injury. It is a way of being with a strong tendency to remain that way throughout life, and which compromises the performance of the person in their general relationships.

The personality disorder appears early in the person’s development, becoming deeply entrenched in him, making him develop strong personality traits. Those who suffer from this, present the exaggeration in some character traits that we all possess, only in a smaller dose. You may be prone to dramatization, jealousy, anxiety, melancholy, perfectionism. But it doesn’t have to dominate your life or your relationships.

In the individual with personality disorder, he is rigidly possessed by one of these characteristics, disturbing his relationship with himself and with other people, producing suffering for a long time, and perhaps for a lifetime if he does not seek help and if he does not strive to do something to improve his way of being.

If someone with a personality disorder makes an effort to analyze their unhealthy tendency to think, feel, and relate, it will make it possible to loosen the rigidity of their altered personality traits. This will reduce the suffering for the person and for those who live with him. You will learn to control your aggressive and explosive impulses, you will be able to discipline your distorted thoughts, you will be able to perceive your unhealthy beliefs about life situations and relationships, you will be able to reduce unhealthy jealousy that generates fights, you will be able to be more merciful with yourself and with others regarding expenses, among other changes.

A person reflecting on his attitudes

The World Health Organization (WHO) defines personality disorders this way: “These types of condition encompass permanent and deeply ingrained behavior patterns in the being, which manifest themselves as inflexible responses to a series of personal and social situations. They represent extreme or significant deviations from the way an average individual in a given culture perceives, thinks, feels, and particularly relates to others.”

Some steps for a person diagnosed with personality disorder to improve their mental health:

  1. Admit you have a problem.
  2. Decide to seek and accept help for a positive change.
  3. Understand and realize that there are distorted ways of thinking in your mind, based on erroneous beliefs developed in life; there is alteration of normal affective expression.
  4. Accept the mistakes in the current diet and correct them, because it helps to decrease anxiety and aggressiveness, emotional outburst, hostility, possible emotional coldness, which impair pleasant contact with people.
  5. Turn to spiritual help, such as meditation on biblical texts, prayer, socializing with friends who are spiritual people, committed to their religion and not extremists.
  6. Continue with specialized professional care.

We don’t need to get stuck in behaviors and habits acquired for many years. It is possible to change. Take a step in the right direction today!

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